Tiger Woods …. and Lindsey?
Just being with someone who makes you feel good can heal the body, but it seldom leads to transformation of the stress patterns — the pre-conscious codes — that were at the root of problems in the first place.
I sense that Tiger and Lindsey Vonn are Mirror Energy, operating in positive-mirror mode. They would feel understood by each other. And that would feel good.
My sense about Tiger and his ex-wife is that they are Friend Energy.
But the primary relationship for Tiger in his life was his father. He and his father were Lover-Energy.
My sense is that when Tiger was a child — he became a child-prodigy in golf as an instinctive way to get the attention that he craved from his father. And it worked!
Tiger “juiced” his father by being an outstanding golfer, and in turn, his father “juiced” Tiger with his attention, love and care — more than any BFF.
But when Tiger’s father died, so did Tiger’s real source and inspiration for golf. Oh, Tiger still had great skills … but it takes passion plus skills to be the level of player he is/was.
Elin, Tiger’s former wife, is beautiful and probably fun, but my sense is that she was no substitute for the “juice” that Tiger was able to get from his father by being the exceptional golfer. I imagine that Tiger’s numerous liaisons with other women was an instinctive – and easy — way to get “juiced” again, and thus continue with his winning ways.
We know that Tiger was not after normal relationships with his liaisons. It seemed that he wanted more of a “pick-me-up-caffeine-surge-feeling-like-I-am-wanted” with his sex-capades.
For Tiger to resolve the issues that had him labeled as a sex-addict – well, transformation of his “unloving beliefs” — such as “I am cut off from the things of God … joy, love, aliveness” — would be a great starter. No outside person will ever be able to permanently plug that hole in his dam. Only he can do that.
In the meantime, it will be interesting to see how his golf-game goes, and how long both he and Lindsey will feel good with each other.